I cheated on my boyfriend and now he thinks it's okay to treat me like crap?

He says really awful and hurtful things to me even though I apologized and said I'd do anything to fix it. I understand that it was horrible for me to cheat on him, but I still love him and I want to make things work. But he says mean things and when I ask him to stop he just uses the excuse that at least he didn't kiss another girl. Is this fair for him to do this? Should I stay with him?I cheated on my boyfriend and now he thinks it's okay to treat me like crap?
U really deserve what hes saying to u. Cheating is wrong, and it hurts on so many levels. Its hard to get that TRUST back after the deed is done. The relationship will go downhill from now on. MARK MY WORDS. Hes lost all RESPECT for u. I can tell becuz hes calling u names. Its gonna be HELL to fix it.

Sorry, harsh words but im blunt.
I'm actually surprised that he is still with you right now after cheating on him. Usually when someone gets cheated on, they leave that person who cheated on them with no questions asked. I think the reason why he's being mean to you is because he is got hurt in the relationship by you. Of course he has the right to be like this. It's cutting him really deep the fact that he loved someone who ended up cheating on him. I think he's frustrated and confused with his own feelings and with the feelings that you have for him. If you think he is worth fighting for then give it some time. Things are going to be bitter between the two of you. But if I were you and I didn't want to lose him, I would stick through, stay strong, be patient, and hope for the bestI cheated on my boyfriend and now he thinks it's okay to treat me like crap?
You should have broke up with him before you did anything with the other guy. If you did truly love him you wouldn't have been able to do anything with anyone else. He's always going to be like this now, he doesn't trust you anymore you completely lost his trust and that is pretty much impossible to gain back when you betray someone in that manner as you cheating will always be on his mind. Just move on from him and don't cheat on anyone else ever again.
it would be better if you just ended it.

if you REALLY loved him, enough to stay with him forever..

would you have felt the need to cheat in the first place?



besides, your relationship together is scarred, and that will never change.

he will always have resentful feelings toward you, and you will always

feel regret, so just break up and move on now. the sooner the better.

just get the pain over with. your relationship doesnt sound like its too

happy anymore anyway.I cheated on my boyfriend and now he thinks it's okay to treat me like crap?
If had any self respect he would have dumped you. He is just with you to get back at you for hurting him and so you wont' go with anyone else. but let me tell you that by cheating you lost all his respect and it will be hard to get it back. You should just dump him and tell him why you're doing it. Maybe he will change his mind and start respecting you again which I doubt he will because you hurt him. You guys shouldn't be together at all anymore. The respect and trust is gone.
well practically, that would be fair now but he should call you gorrible things everytime you guys meet up. tell him that if he doesnt like you he can leave because calling you horrible names arent going to make anything better :)
If he thinks you are trash, why would you stay with him?



Take your lumps, learn your lesson, move on.
i think its fair..wa made u wanna cheat on him ? did he do anything rong ? maybe u should try to move on and not talk to him
your lucky he's treating you like crap
he reaction is his hurt for what u did

vocelli