So my girlfriend said she needed space, but the moment i give her space she believes i hate her... What to do?

Okay so this started last week, she started distancing herself away and so me being the worried idiot I am I ask her what the problem was. so she lies to me for 3 days, until i get stubborn and so she tells me shes confused, and that she need time for herself. On Saturday, i go and get her flowers because i feel like my stubborn side was a lot for her and i just want to say sorry for the fact that well lets just say i havent been "spontaneous" and i have been "boring" to her, she told me everything has just been routine before. so i drive to her house give her flowers and the response i get is "I jsut got called for dinner so i have to go" i try and talk and she cuts me off and says "i have to go now.".... i mean i didnt even get a sorry or a thank you. Look its not that i dont want to give her space its just that i was going to propose the idea of me being there for her if she ever needed it and i understand that she needed space because she does and im not saying otherwise. I'm going to be honest i love her to pieces, and care for her more than anything but it just seems that nothing i do is ever enough, i just feel liek everything i do for her is shut down and she just keeps expecting more. then on Sunday im confused because she never really stated why she wanted a break so i try to call her twice, me being te idiot ruined her space but she doesnt get mad, she just tells me she needs her space and i say okay. Monday: i rant to my best friends about this situation, one tells me i sohuld give her time to figure things out, the other tells me that shes not worth it because of saturday, and the last one says that all girls are complicated and if they tell you they something it usually means that they want the opposite... so im all confused and i talk to her to figure out what she wants. In this talk i tell her about my insecurities, this is not the first time i have had this experience and they seem to get worse with every experience. and she blogs about how my insecurities pretty much dont mean anything and im just overreacting. so the next day i just give her, her space. i saw her in the morning and said good morning and she walks right by me even though she looked straight at me ad doenst say anything. sooo im like okay maybe she doesn't even want hellos or goodbyes either. so i dont say goodbye to her because well lets face it who wants to be ignored. and then on Wednesday i find out she thinks i hate her because i didnt say goodbye????????? I'm just so confused because she necver told me what she wants excpet for space but when i give it to her, according to her its "apparent that i hate her"... any suggestions or ideas. anything would be good i just need some type of direction because my friends are as confused as i am.So my girlfriend said she needed space, but the moment i give her space she believes i hate her... What to do?
She's being annoying and playing mind games. Sounds like she needs to grow up. I stopped playing little games like that after high school...
leave her break up i think she cheats uSo my girlfriend said she needed space, but the moment i give her space she believes i hate her... What to do?
What is space to her?
It sounds like you are smothering her. She says she needs space and you go over with flowers and call her constantly. Give her time alone to think. It sounds like she is trying to figure out if she wants to continue your relationship. If you continue to smother her, it gives her a really good reason to break it off.So my girlfriend said she needed space, but the moment i give her space she believes i hate her... What to do?
I would ask her how she defines "space." To me, giving another person space is taking a day or two apart to do your own thing. It's not a break, it's not a week away from each other, it's not ignoring each other in the halls. It's just hanging out with friends instead of your boyfriend, curling up on the couch in my pajamas watching chick flicks instead of going to dinner and the movies.



Once she tells you "space is XYZ", then do that. If that means not communicating with her at all, don't communicate with her. If that means saying hello and goodbye but nothing else, do that. But it's unfair of her to downplay your emotions when you have no idea what she wants.
Break up. Trust me.