Why does my boyfriend try to make his ex wife life miserable?

Ok my boyfriend who I have been on and off with for a year now, tends to make things difficult for his ex wife.

Two days ago, in the middle of the day he went to pick up their son from her house, she,the ex, was not there and their son was instead with her 22 year old cousin.

He through a fit as she was not there to deliver their son to him, of course he asked if she was ever around their son or does she just let him loose like a puppy.



Two days go he was suppose to take their son back at a certain time and he found out that she was not going to be there again and she informed him that the cousins would be there to babysit until she returned home. He through a fit and did not bring back their son at the correct time, he didnt even call she had to call him to find out where they were. He brought him back after 9 hours.



The thing is, he leave his son with other people all the time. And their kid is with her all the time. He tries to pick their son up in the middle of the day, when she is at WORK. I have explained this to him.





There was no reason for him to do this.

He was always calling her jealous and miserable and bitter, yet she is not. She has MOVED on with her life, hes always lying to her about his life.



He cheated on her and she moved on with her life.

What is his deal with her.Why does my boyfriend try to make his ex wife life miserable?
He is just angry about her ex wife that she dumped him, as he cheated on her. As a matter of fact your boyfriend doesn't deserve the moral behaviour he is getting from his ex wife.
i cant really understand your text a little bit, but ill try. umm when couples breaks up, they usually think it over ,like whose fault is this and each of them have their own thoughts and views, some partners learn to move on, but some think that its their partners fault and they want to seek vengeance for breaking up their long time relationship. your boyfriend might be one of those people. beware that if you break up with him after a long term relationship and you and him have daily communication, he might do this to you too. so yea, just saying, just saying.Why does my boyfriend try to make his ex wife life miserable?
It sounds like he is still resentful and bitter at either being caught cheating, or her leaving him and moving on. He is trying to convince himself and others of her "inadequacies" by doing this stuff. Honestly, he sounds childish and in no way mature enough to properly raise a child, or be a decent boyfriend.
He still has feelings for her. And doing his best, his way to make amends with her.Why does my boyfriend try to make his ex wife life miserable?
I'm wondering why you are with this man still, when you are witnessing how he treats the mother of his child.



He's a selfish pig, basically. And immature.
He is trying to make her look bad,he has some anger issues,i would say he doesnt like the fact she has moved on and is doing ok.if he cheated on her that perhaps is a warning to you.