Why is my dad ALWAYS doing this to me!? DADs pleaseee answer!?

Im 14 years old

And the thing is my dad is ALWAYS telling me " DON'T CONCENTRATE ON FASHION- wait till 18" OMG. seriously? Tell you the truth, im doing really good in school and he knows that well

Im getting really good grades and my teachers know that and so does everyone in my family.

I just don't know why he acts this way

Just to let you know- I DON'T wear ANY makeup, EXCEPT for lip balm and a tiny bit of red lipstick (just because i like my lips bright) And thats it

He knows I don't like wearing makeup and stuff but he doesn't know that i want to start wearing it

But even if i did, I can promise you i will probably just wear eye liner and thats it

Another thing, He doesn't let me wear shorts! %26gt;%26lt;

I just don't get it

It's fine with my mom

And By the way, Im not muslim - just for ur info

I know he's like being a good dad and stuff but the thing that really annoys me is that he KEEPS ON REPEATING IT

"Don't pay attention to fashion, do the things you like and those fashion things when ur 18"

I just feel like crying

He repeats it like whenever he likes and just frustrates me

Right now, I was just walking pass his bedroom and he told me to come , sit next to him and he just , for NO REASON said that and i just turned away and just didn't bother saying anything

And he looked really angry as well

I don't know what happened

I just hate when my dad does this

I love him so much and i know he loves me too but sometimes, its just too much

Another thing- whenever i go outside with my friends, he takes a look at what im wearing and sometimes, he jokes around complimenting my clothes like my red skinny jeans aha :')

But the thing is, my friends, when i look at them, there parents aren't like that

One of my friend, her mum is SO strict, but she lets her wear big hoops of earings (and she is really good in school) and she's so into fashion but me?

Ugh I just feel like asking him WHY he is doing this to me

But if i did, he'll probably shout at me just because i answered him back or something

ughh Please help me! Why is my dad doing this to me?Why is my dad ALWAYS doing this to me!? DADs pleaseee answer!?
Speaking as a dad I can tell you one thing. Every dad started out as a young teenage guy looking at that hot chick in 'skinny jeans'.

Every dad knew a friend or a guy in class who managed to convince one of the 'sweet girls' to have 'just one drink' And yes... that sweet girl became the obese teenage mom living in poverty.



That is a memory that sticks with a dad when he looks at his 'little girl' who became a beautiful woman 5 months ago.

Your dad trusts you, He just doesn't trust any guys. ANY GUYS
OMG ur dad is really protective. But you have to talk back and tell him everything u just wrote. Im 14 too and my dad can be so strict too ! but trust me just tell him and make him feel a little bad aha ;)Why is my dad ALWAYS doing this to me!? DADs pleaseee answer!?
It sounds like your dad just doesnt want you to grow up he considers you his little girl and when he sees you "growing up" he gets angry but i agree with BubbleG you should totally tell your dad what you just wrote if you really want something you have to fight for it lol XD
Dads don't get what it's like to be a teenaged girl. He never knew what it felt like to want to fit in, look pretty and popular, and it's wayyy over his head what the importance of makeup is. He doesn't get it. Your mom does. It's the same in every family. Ask your mom to talk to your dad on how important it is for a teenaged girl to look her best. See if she can clear things up.



http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Why is my dad ALWAYS doing this to me!? DADs pleaseee answer!?
So, your crying over cloths.. we use them to cover our selves in society. People these days make a big deal out of them, buying beautiful expensive clothes.. as clothing stores get rich off of selling 100$ coats they made in china for 3 pennies..



If your life really depends on how other people see you, then talk to your dad, about how you think and what you want, instead of ignoring him.