Have a problem with fiance and don't know what do to. >.<?

ok, everything is peachy keen bla bla bla and I lobs him to death. Here is the problem.



Before he proposed to me, we were still figuring out where we wanted to live. IE America, Japan, Sweden. So I could tell he was going to propose to me soon. I wanted to find that answer 1st. Aparently he couldn't read me when I kept trying to get him off me for being overly chummy with me.



And then he did. He proposed... all I could do is just stand there and just .. ask him where we would live. He then said he would go wherever with me. Then I said yes.



And HERE is where it is bad. Then he was like. "I told your parents."



... O.O



I told him before that I didn't want him to tell my parents. He also knows how close I am NOT to them. I didn't want to tell him recently because I wasn't sure about the living thing.



and now..... I can not still get over that he told my parents!!! I just can't!! AND IT SUCKS!!!



My plan was for him to propose, then I tell my grandma and then she tells my parents while I am there. *sigh*



So yea. I really don't know what to do and I am trying sooo hard to forgive him but I just don't know what to do!!! :(((



somebody please help! I want to love him and be close to him 100% instead of 80%.Have a problem with fiance and don't know what do to. %26gt;.%26lt;?
ok...2 things

1-how is that a bad thing, for you to be like so mad at him..

2-did you ever think that maybe, just maybe, he didnt just tell them? whether you like it or not, they are your parents, and it used to be(and still is with most decent men) quite a big deal to ask the fathers permission or blessing. you think maybe he was doing it for that reason?...
Reporting abuse. I have a question that I need an answer to that is personal and you are all attacking me. Idk why you all think I am immature. I'm freaken 23. lol oh well. I mean seriosly. When people ask questions they expect an adult answer. Like a psychiatrist. Oh well. I guess that's what ya'll

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Have a problem with fiance and don't know what do to. %26gt;.%26lt;?
get. I mean, none of you guys are coming to my Renaissance wedding. ^_^ I guess I just have to shrug off people who haven't come in a time in their life were they learned stuff. People ya need to be nice to others and respectful. Otherwise ya get no friends.

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And do NOT **** with me. If you are all man enough to comment those things, come down to my ******* apartment and show me how man enough you are! I AM NOT KIDDING! GET YOUR ******* *** OVER HERE AND I WILL BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF YOU! BRING IT BITCHES!!!

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Have a problem with fiance and don't know what do to. %26gt;.%26lt;?
This question again? Well after telling everyone else that answered this question that they suck and are country hicks, it's nice to see that you are getting the same advice- AGAIN. There is nothing you can do with this situation other than to get over it. It's already done. How can he take it back? He can't. Forgive him or find another fianc茅 that will do it your way next time.
You are very immature and perhaps need some more time to grow up so you can love your boyfriend unconditionally. You put too many strings on him and one is bound to snap.
Seriously, grow up.



He just told your parent that you are both engaged - he did not f*ck a stripper, go to a prostitiute, get drunk and cheat or murder someone.



GET OVER IT.
Get over it, so what they know. They would have found out sooner or later. If you can't get over this you are way too immature to get married.
Are you STILL on about that? How many times have you asked that stupid question now? The man who is supposedly the love of your life has asked you to marry him. He wants to spend the rest of his life with you. And you're going to get hung up about a little thing like what order people were told the good news? You are either unbelievable childish or an entitlement-minded princess of equally incredible proportions. Either way, you are not mature enough to get married. Grow up, for heaven's sake, and stop posting this non-dilemma. You are making yourself look not like a 80% but like a 100% idiot.
He is a man.



You are a child.



You had a "plan" for how he was supposed to propose...you say yes then you tell your grandma and then she breaks the news to your parents? Are you TWELVE?



You are such a little baby spoiled manipulative immature princess. You need a few years before you are wife material.



You ought to respect your man for having the courtesy to inform your parents he wishes to marry you.



You really suck right about now. Sorry.