I 'accidentally' found some questionable stuff on his pc. I was trying to check my email at live.com and a live sex site popped up under the address bar. I checked his history and found a bunch of live sex sites, porn (which I have no problem with), and even some gay porn. But he started deleting his current web history. All I wanted to know is if he was still doing these things 'currently' while we are together.
As stupid as it sounds, me and a girlfriend thought it was a good idea (horrible idea) to install programs on his pc to restore his deleted history. He found out what I did and was really pissed. I didn't lie or deny it. I owned up to everything and told him a dozen times that I'm sorry. But he couldn't forgive me. He said we should take a 30 day break, which is over today, then talk. His tone kept changing. One min, he insinuated he's not taking me back after the break. Next min, he insinuated he will take me back if I do certain things. Those things involved getting a job, health ins., and birth control. He also 'jokingly' mentioned me taking an enema (for anal s**). I refused to do that - again - while we were together because I don't like the feel of it.
You don't have to tell me I was wrong. I understand now that I really screwed up big time. I really wish I wouldn't have done it, but I can change the past. Before all of this we had a good relationship, no problems at all. I still love him and believe we could work it out IF he wanted too. I highly doubt he's gay. I know lots of straight men that like anal sex. I also got BC recently. I'm tempted to call him to see if he's gonna keep his word and I know I'm not gonna be able to resist the urge of doing so.MEN: Do you think my ex-Boyfriend will take me back? (A little gaphic)?
Why did you feel it was necessary to invade his privacy BIGTIME?
Why would a man want to contemplate a future with someone with that little respect for his privacy?
It terrifies me to think what you might do IF you thought he might be cheating, or contemplating it.
You can't really blame him for being pissed off, and a little freaked out, by your extreme prying into his private business. I don't know if I'd be able to forgive you. Good luck.
Drop him like a highly contagious STD..................................!MEN: Do you think my ex-Boyfriend will take me back? (A little gaphic)?
I was going to say get rid of him but when i see your pre-med you guys are probably perfect for each other because everyone i meet in the medical field is so screwed up and self centered !
never heard of a straight guy watching gay porn. anal sex and gay porn are not the same thing
it sounds like he is not nearly into you as much as you are him. he hides things from you. move onMEN: Do you think my ex-Boyfriend will take me back? (A little gaphic)?
due to fact that u looked through his computer i don't think he will take u back. he probably thinks that u don't trust him and if anyone in the relationship doesn't trust the other one things don't work out. so i'm going to have to go with no on this. i know this from past relationships. if he doesn't support u going to college then why would u want to take him back. you are trying to get ahead in life and i don't think you should be with someone who doesn't support that. i'm going to college for medical assistance. i wish you the best. good luck
WHY in GODS NAME Would you want a loser, who is most likely going to cheat on you!- RUN as far as you can.. and NEVER look back, try to find a "Real Man"-
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