My friends needs opinions...:D and help!!! WHat to do?

Well she and this guy met last year in October and they sort of hung out for a week because they were doing a debutante ball together so they had to stay and train together. Anyways so that all finished and i was there trust me it was a really great night! Then he kept talking to her on facebook like LOTS andd they met up a couple of times with friends to do some stuff together, and they became really close after probably the past three months, anyway her birthday happens to be valentines day (SO cool!) lol anyway this guy was talking to me and i asked him how he felt about her like did he like her or anything (just out of curiosity) and he full on poured his heart out and told me that he loved her!!! wow that was a bit of a shock like i though he might like her but anyway....



So this is the problem, so he really likes her but he thinks i am the only one that knows, but i told her because i cannot keep something like that from my best friend!! but anyway she thinks its awkward and he told me that he was going to tell her how he feels on valentines day (her bday!!!) but the thing is she really does not like him like that and she does not know how to tell him that she does not like him, without ruining their friendship (because they are really close)



So any suggestions would be REALLY appreciated!!!!!! thanks!!!!!!!!My friends needs opinions...:D and help!!! WHat to do?
BY THE WAY YOU DIDN'T RUIN ANYTHING. I mean maybe you shouldn't have told her that truth. He should tell her how he feels because he needs to let his feelings out even thought its not going to be what he wants. But once he tells her truth, their not going to be friends anymore. I get that their really close but he doesn't see her as a friend. Keep that in mind. Its very difficult to maintain a friendship when that other person starts seeing him or her more than just a friend. So their friendship ended right there. So again you didn't ruin anything. He's going to be jealous and its going to be hard for him to see her dating other guys. Its really hard but she has to be honest with him. Things like this are never supposed to be easy. I'm sorry.
I think you guys will just have to let him tell her how he feels on her bday and she'll have to truthfully tell him how she feels. You can't do anything else because you broke his trust by telling your friend so if he find out, he'll be hurt by both of you.My friends needs opinions...:D and help!!! WHat to do?
She must approach the guy and tell him what she really feels, because guys usually don't want to be disappointed.
She can tell him before the b-day without saying notthing about what he told u, she can say that she like him as a friend and always will see him as a good friend!My friends needs opinions...:D and help!!! WHat to do?
well you ruined it. you told her something he thought he had confidence in you with and you told her. so its completely your fault for them no longer being friends. good job. learn to respect peoples trust in you because if he finds out, he will tell people and then more and more people will keep things like this from you which hurts you because people like to know secrets. i do. but uhhh. she's screwed if he tells her and its your fault. like it or not, its the truth, dont betray peoples trust and she wouldnt be in this situation. of it isnt going to harm her, she doesnt need to know. don't you think she would be better off with a friend like that instead of them not having a friendship anymore? You have to know the difference between "keeping it from her" and "keeping it away from her." Sorry but that's the honest truth, sorry about the essay.