Thursday, February 16, 2012

How do you ask your boyfriend if his cheating on you?

Okay this has two parts I guess..

First i kinda suspect my boyfriend may be cheating on me; so how can I ask him if he is without making things worse?



Secondly, I don't trust him when he goes to his mates because I think if he gets drunk he'll screw some other chick; so what can I do about this?



Please help me.How do you ask your boyfriend if his cheating on you?
well, you could just basically sit him down and say hey i dont know whats been going on lately but i feel like something has changed and then tell him all the things that has been bothering you and then end it with asking if hes seeing someone else and or is he just losing interest in you because things havent been the same like they use to be

and also you could perhaps say that you want to hang out with him and perhapys you could also say that you two need to hang out with each other alone, and if he says something otherwise just say that you really want to spend more time with him

:) hun, also, Ive had thoughts of my boyfriend cheating on me but their never true, or atleast with me, hopefully your suspection wont be true with your boyfriend

^-^ wish you luck~
The "unexpected dramatic event" technique.

Ex: You think he was out cheating you.



You: "Where'd you go?"

Him: "Hangin' out with da bros down at (insert name of place here!)"

You: "OMG! So you were there when they had the big fire alarm evacuation! That must have scary, sweetie!"



(He isn't expecting that response. If he is lying, he has to play along now and say something about said dramatic event that you just made up. So when he does, you tell him that you made it up and now ask him where he really was. If was telling the truth, he's gonna tell you, "that never happened", in which case you can just shrug it off, realize he was telling the truth, and say you probably got the name of the place wrong, and then act very relieved).How do you ask your boyfriend if his cheating on you?
If he is cheating on you, chance are he's not going to admit it. If he's not he's going to be mad at you for assuming that he is. Either way, its going to get much worse. Just talk to him about it but don't bring it up directly. Tell him you want to have to a calm but serious conversation with him but no arguing.
If you don't trust him then you shouldn't be with him. If you follow that simple rule you'll be a lot happier in most relationships. Do you think you're a smart gal? Do you usually have trust issues? Trust your instincts. He doesn't sound like the most upstanding boyfriend in the world anyway.How do you ask your boyfriend if his cheating on you?
Just talk to him about it.

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