1. I wanna shave because I have a lot of pubic hair. It sticks out of my underwear, and when I'm on my period (Like today) it collects the blood and smears it around. I've shaved down there once, and I didn't tell her, but I felt guilty. Do I have to ask? Or is it even any of her business?
2. My Mom is really, I guess you would say, "into" my life. But do I HAVE to tell her each time I start and end my period? She wants me to, but it seems weird and sick to me. I mean, what's it to her? Some things I want to be kept private. Do I have to tell her EACH time?Do you have to ask your mom for permission to shave down there and do you have to tell her when you "start?"?
I think that you should discuss both of these with your mom. She shouldn't have a problem with your shaving, because it is cleaner for your underwear and your body. However, as for telling her when you start your period, I think you should sit her down and tell her that you want this to be slightly private, that you love her and you realize that being women together is a bonding time. But that you feel that this should be your business, unless something seems wrong or not quite right. Although, as others have stated, you will need her to buy you pads/tampons, or she could give you a monthly allowance and you could use this for things you really need, like pads and tampons, and save/spend the extra, as this would give you some experience with money and would teach you the value of money. Hope this helped!
I would say both yes and no. It's a good idea to tell your mom each time so she can go buy pads if you run out, but after a while she should have an idea of what time during the month it happens around, so you shouldn't have to tell her. And you don't really need to ask her permission to shave as long as you have permission to shave your legs, because tons of girls shave down there during bikini seasonDo you have to ask your mom for permission to shave down there and do you have to tell her when you "start?"?
u cant shave down there! dont so it! the area is too sensitive so it will be bad.
You don't have to tell her and don't feel guilty for shaving. Its no different than shaving your legs. She won't (or shouldn't) see you naked anyways.
As for your period, no you don't have to tell her. Just tell her if something isn't normal or you need pads/tampons.Do you have to ask your mom for permission to shave down there and do you have to tell her when you "start?"?
ehhh, no, that'd just be weird...
you dont have to if you dont want to!
i wouldnt feel comfortable talking to my mom about shaving down there, its up to me!
if you want to tell her though, go for it!
no
I shave for the same reason. its not like she should be seeing you naked so she wouldn't really know anyway.
and no again.
sometimes I just go 'i'm starting soon' but that's because I have really bad pain and vomiting so its just a heads up so she knows when I'll be unwell
Shave it secretly. You won't show her what you've got ''down there'' that's just unnecesary information and you know that's higienic.
Neither one is any of her bisness
She don't feel guilty. Also you should personally keep track of your own periods(the date it starts and ends)
No you do not, but you will probably need her to buy you feminine products if you do not have your own money. And if you want to shave, then do it. What it to her? She really cant stop you.
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