Wednesday, February 1, 2012

My DH and I have been married about a year now and his family doesn't like me.. What to do?

We have a strong relationship my DH and myself.. It's just that his family causes a lot of stress for us. It's really been going on the whole time we have been together ( 4yrs). The latest thing is our wedding photos.. We got them about 6 months after the wedding and wanted to wait to give them to family and friends until this Xmas. (we're really tight on money and thought that would be a good gift) so we gave everyone (my family and his) and equal amount. Mostly the same photos even, but now his grandmother is asking for ALL of our wedding photos. (over 700 of them) we don't even have them all printed for ourselves.. And there are some kinda private ones of me getting ready with my family and Bridesmaids.. She already has 30 printed photos just like everyone else. My DH and I don't want to give her anymore but don't know how to tell her that. Well my DH doesn't know how to tell her that, she won't speak to me. She wouldn't even hug me on the wedding day.. So I guess just how do we handle her? Sometimes I feel like she thinks she is intitiled to things shes not..My DH and I have been married about a year now and his family doesn't like me.. What to do?
This is what your husband needs to say to his grandmother:

"The photos we gave you for Christmas are the ones we decided to share with family and friends".



Repeat as needed.
my parents have been going through the same thing my dads mom despises my mom and has been trying to devorce them for years with all types of schemes yet my parents since day one yet my parents have stayed married for 20 years and still goingMy DH and I have been married about a year now and his family doesn't like me.. What to do?
Your Designated Hitter?
Be blunt and say I gave out what I wanted and end itMy DH and I have been married about a year now and his family doesn't like me.. What to do?
My father in law hates my guts. He's close with his oldest son and his family, but ever since I married my husband, he has treated him and me like crap. He even refuses to acknowledge my or our daughter's birthdays, or that we're even married. He expects us to remember his birthday, his wife's (second wife)birthday, and their anniversary though. He has even joked around with his oldest son and they have called me the most horrible, hurtful names.





My mother in law isn't much better.

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