I truly like a girl from my office, but for some reason she doesn't like me so we are never going to be in any relationship ever other than friends.
She always reaches out to me if she wants some help or so, all my friends tell me to stop talking to her or dump her because she is using me to get her things done.
I know that she may be using me and I hate being used, but I can't say a no to her and continue to help her out with things. She has recently resigned and would be leaving in 2 weeks. I don't know, I just feel like let her do it, at least I am spending sometime with her?
Do you think anything is wrong?GIRLS only!!!! how do you feel? is this right?
No when you like someone it's natural to want to be around them or spend time with them. It's harder to say no because you wish to have a connection and something in your mind tells you well maybe if I'm around her more or if I do this stuff for her she will like me too. It's not healthy to let someone walk all over you but it's natural to want to be around someone that you like.GIRLS only!!!! how do you feel? is this right?
I dont think its wrong- you enjoy your time with her and she gets help with things- its a fair trade. Maybe she will eventually appreciate your help with things and decide you are dateable.GIRLS only!!!! how do you feel? is this right?
You should approach her with honesty. Be kind but let her know you're concerns and tell her how you feel. Not from your head but your heart. And um... I don't think your friends know what your heart feels so don't let them influence your decision okay? It's how you feel that matters! Good luck and thank you for answering my q :)
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